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Smart keep-in-touch frequencies

It can feel somewhat superficial to group contacts in the groups as they are, especially as relationships change over time. I think it would be extremely useful if the keep-in-touch frequencies of different contacts was based on the frequency of interactions logged in the timeline, perhaps an average of the intervals between all interactions with the contact?

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  • Matthew Silberman changed status to Under Review
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    Feb 18, 2025

  • Lee Salazar

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    Dec 4, 2021

    This sounds like a great starting place for newly-imported contacts. I would still want to be able to manually adjust the frequency.

  • Marco Farrugia

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    Nov 9, 2021

    Looks like this idea didn't gain a lot of traction :( What a shame! I still think it would be a fantastic idea to allow keep-in-touch frequencies to be automatically calculated from timeline event frequency.

  • Benuel Ganesan

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    Sep 28, 2021

    Even within a group - desired frequencies can change.

  • Tzvika Barenholz

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    Sep 27, 2021

    this is a huge idea. should be part of the permanent roadmap. happy to help brainstorm what smart should mean here

    • Marco Farrugia

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      Sep 28, 2021

      Tzvika Barenholz: Agreed. My first thought is simply to keep track of the number of days between the first interaction logged and the most recent, and divide it by the number of events logged minus one. There are obviously much more effective ways of doing it, but this seems a good place to start and might be relatively easy to set up.

  • David Newberry

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    Nov 25, 2020

    Love this idea. For me it's more about personal capacity management -- just starting up here I am hesitant to set a cadence for too many contacts because I'm going to have 100 people that I'm overdue on (some of which I have contacted but haven't recorded history, others I haven't yet). Not critical but could make for a friendly onboarding experience for users. I think Contactually did something like this originally (i.e., it would limit how many keep-in-touch nudges it would provide and it would be random from the set of "overdue" contacts

  • Ronnie Ledesma

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    Nov 18, 2020

    This would be helpful. If I may expand on the idea, here's what I was thinking:
    The one things that's making me crazy right now is the linear keep-in-touch intervals. What I'm finding is that it doesn't make sense for me to keep in touch with people every week or every two weeks or every three months.
    I'd really like to see more of a spaced repetition approach. In fact, I've wondered if there are any psychological studies on length of time between contacts for keeping a relationship "warm."
    "Contact Warm Up" Variable Reminder
    For example, let's say I meet a new person and get their business card, and I want to stay in touch. How about an interval for staying on that person's radar, a "Contact Warm Up" as it were:

    • 1st contact is in person
    • 1st Contact + 2 days = next impression
    • Then +5 days, then +14 days, after that contact at every 3 weeks.
      "Long Time Friend/Family" Variable Reminder
      On the other hand, for longtime friends, it might be more of an "Orbit." As a thought: the Earth moves around the sun about every 365 days, yet it's not always equidistant to the sun, but an elliptical orbit. I'd like to do that with people are fixtures in my life. Maybe that looks like:
    • 1st Contact
    • 1st Contact + 14 days = next impression
    • Then + 21 days, then +7 days, then +30 days, then start over--or something like that.
      --> The benefit of the "Orbit" track is that it helps me space out all the people with whom I'd like to stay in touch. It also makes it so that I don't have 20 people every day that I need to connect with.
      Whereas, for people I naturally have contact with on a frequent basis, they're on a "Special Occasions Only" track, which I can set up with Custom Reminders.
      Something like this, I think, is how relationship really work, unless one's entire Dex is made up of potential clients--hey! That might be a great edition--the "Sales Track."